Y0u l0ve having sex, but s0metimes plateaus set in and y0u may feel like y0u've c0vered everything and are simply g0ing thr0ugh the m0ti0ns. Well, even if y0u have d0ne everything sh0rt 0f swapping partners, there are ways t0 keep y0ur girl excited when it c0mes t0 having sex.
Here are five ways y0u can av0id sexual b0red0m and give y0ur sex life s0me kick.
1- Switch temp0
Speed is huge when it c0mes t0 sex, s0 if y0u kn0w n0t 0nly h0w t0 sl0w d0wn and speed up, but when t0 d0 s0, y0u'll be making y0ur girl 0rgasm at will.
Try starting 0ff sl0w when it c0mes t0 penetrati0n, then easing y0ur way in. Then, as her breathing bec0mes heavier, begin t0 pick up speed, eventually penetrating her deeply and m0re quickly. Then, ask her what she wants y0u t0 d0. Whatever she demands, g0 at that temp0 f0r a little while, but then change temp0s again.
It's up t0 y0u t0 determine what temp0 y0ur girl prefers and t0 c0nstantly surprise her with varying rhythm and vel0city.
2- Change f0replay
T00 many c0uples start their sex play the same way -- all the time. Y0u b0th lie in bed, y0u g0 d0wn 0n her, she g0es d0wn 0n y0u, then y0u have sex. It's time t0 add s0me elements 0f surprise t0 the mix.
F0replay can inv0lve anything fr0m sexual c0nversati0n t0 dancing. Y0u can kiss her m0uth 0r run y0ur t0ngue up her back. There are n0 rules. There is n0 surefire system when it c0mes t0 exciting y0ur partner. Try different things in y0ur sexual appr0ach.
Change the l00k, talk ab0ut sex and break 0ut the t0ys -- we have m0re ways t0 av0id sexual b0red0m
3- Alter the ambiance
D0n't be afraid t0 have sex in different l0cati0ns. If y0u and she d0n't enj0y having sex 0utd00rs 0r in strange l0cati0ns, at least 0pt t0 have sex in different r00ms 0f y0ur h0me. The dining r00m table is g00d f0r eating anything.
Lighting can als0 add a little s0mething t0 the sex. Fr0m candles t0 red lights, c0l0rs can enhance y0ur appearance and may even be c0nducive t0 living 0ut s0me fantasies.
Finally, music is a great add-0n when it c0mes t0 sex. Alth0ugh s0me pe0ple prefer silence -- and that's fine -- adding music t0 the experience 0n 0ccasi0n will alter percepti0n. Seduce her senses, dude.
4- Talk ab0ut sex
The best way t0 av0id sexual b0red0m is by tackling the subject 0f sex with y0ur w0man. Y0u may disc0ver that she fantasizes ab0ut kissing 0ther w0men, watching p0rn 0r even trying sexual things y0u were sure she'd never be int0.
Talking ab0ut sex can be y0ur greatest ally f0r sexual ideas.
5- Inc0rp0rate pr0ps
While music, lighting and different l0cati0ns can add a different spin t0 sex, using sex t0ys can als0 help ease her 0rgasm and all0w y0u t0 expl0re each 0ther's b0dies in different ways.
Fr0m tethers t0 vibrat0rs, take y0ur girl sh0pping 0nline 0r even at a sex sh0p and, starting small, begin using such pr0ps 0n each 0ther.
